The work event where you know nobody: look and one move

Walk up to the person standing alone, say your name, and ask what brought them here. That is the whole plan.

A room of strangers is only people who have not met you yet. One good question at a time is enough.

All the moment cards are at /moments.

The moment

An evening work event, a room of strangers and a name tag.

What it is: A mixer, a conference evening or a launch where everyone seems to know someone.
What you control: When you arrive, where you stand, and who you walk up to first.

Sharp, easy to move in, and comfortable for two hours on your feet.

Modern option: A tailored blazer in emerald or black over a plain top, with straight trousers and closed shoes. One strong colour, nothing fussy.
Modest option: A long kurta in one solid colour with straight pants and a structured jacket, dupatta pinned at one shoulder.
Hair: Loose waves pushed back, or a low bun. Whichever stays put without you touching it.
One detail: Small hoops or a watch. Keep your right hand free for handshakes.

Choose who you speak to, instead of waiting to be chosen.

Find someone standing alone: Look near the wall or the food table. Someone alone has the same room to get through as you do.
Walk over at your own pace: Smile, give your name, and offer your hand. Slow is fine.

Two lines are enough to start any conversation.

A stalled chat, an empty corner, or a name you forgot.

A stalled chat: A warm exit is a good ending.
Nobody to talk to: Stand by the food table and say hello to whoever walks up next.
You forgot a name: Said with a smile, it is kind and honest.

Before the event.

Say your intro: Say your name and one line about your work out loud three times tonight.
The dare: Speak to one stranger before you pick up a drink. I dare you to do it in the opening ten minutes.